So day one of the dare was love is patient.  The idea was to go all day holding your tongue, not saying one negative thing about your spouse, only displaying patience.  Ok, so I started less than strong.  In other words…I failed.  I got up on Valentines day and my husband was working my nerves. … More Love is patient…that’s so not my virtue

Love is tricky.  No person can make you feel more safe, validated, and accepted than those you love.  Nor can any other person make you feel more anger, fear, or frustration.  Thus is relationship… A few years ago my husband and I were in a less than great place.  We had gone through something horrible with … More I love you, I love you not

Sickness and Health.  What do they mean?  Health, when everything is running smoothly, operating as intended.  Literally it is the state of being free from sickness or injury.  Sickness then in turn is the opposite of health, when things are not running as intended, the state of being ill.  Truth is, we are constantly in … More In Sickness and In Health